• Children understand short, simple, and clear sentences better.
• For example: "We don't throw toys on the floor, we put them in the basket."
• Expect the same behavior in the same situation every time.Remember that consistency means trust and learning.
2. Speak in a calm and loving tone
• Explain in a calm, understanding, and clear manner, not in a harsh tone.
• Explain to the child why the rule is important.For example: "If you put away your toys, you won’t trip and it will be safer.A loving tone of voice makes it easier to accept the rule.
3. Offer choices and alternatives
• Instead of forbidding, suggest an option.For example: "You can't draw on the wall, but you can draw on this paper."
• Praise the correct behavior when you see it: "You put your toy away, well done!"
Positive reinforcement strengthens the child's behavior and increases their motivation.
4. Be exemplary and patient
• Children learn by observation, not words. If you follow the rules, they will adapt as well
.• Setting boundaries takes time — children learn through trial and error. Show patience and flexibility appropriate to their age and developmental level.
